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True, faithfullness is a basic foundation of one healthy relationship.
True, the other basic of healthy relationship is communication.
But imagine a relationship with a great communication yet without faithfullness.
Your partner will communicate about his unfaithfullness that he/she conduct over and over again to you,
will it be healthy?

Wad if we’ve made a mistake, and cheated on our partner once?
should we tell her/him?
let me ask u sumtin, will telling him/her will make ur relationship better?
let me ask u another question, will regretting ur mistake and not doing it again make ur relationship better?
so should we tell him/her? dat depends on ur answer to those 2 questions above.

IF your bf is cheating on you, would you prefer knowing it or not?
U might say " of coz i’d prefer knowing it!! " but sumtimes not knowing is bliss.
U wont get hurt if u dont know the hurtfull truth.
I DO NOT believe in white lies, but the situation of not knowing is different.
dont get me wrong, i appreciate honesty. But honesty is for every other situation but that.
Am i stupid? perhaps i am, but who aren’t?

Can u forgive someone who is being unfaithfull to u?
Can u still be with sumone whom u KNOW is already cheating on u?
My answer for both Question is NO.

But can u still love sumone whom u KNOW is already cheating on u?
sadly, the answer is YES.
Would’nt it be more hurtfull if u love sumone that u KNOW is being unfaithfull?
u can’t just stop the love u feel for him/her right at that moment. And thats why its hurt.

So, like i said, SUMTIMES not knowing is bliss (i quote this from sumone, u know who u are)
But not just that, dont just be unfaithfull and not telling ur partner.
But for you and ur partner’s sake, regret ur mistake and never do it again. dats great.
But its even better if u were never be unfaithfull at the first place.

For myself, faithfullness is everything

ko-hii

i just cut my hair recently, and its way too short!! stupid hairdresser!!!!!
T______T
hiks.. i miss my long hair.. rili cant do much wit short hair >.<
anyone knows how to speed up hair growth???

Feeling is a very confusing thing. it seems unimportant, but actually it can influence ur day.
when ure feeling low, it seems that everything happening around u is a mess and uncontrolably unsuitable for you.
But when ure feeling happy, u can jump in joy even when u have to work 24 hours a day.
And wad kind of feeling affects us the most?

Yes, im talking about love

Funny thing love is. It can makes ur day joyful or miserable
But there are always 2 sides of every coin. u just have to deal with it, and accept it the way it should be. if u feel that u cant accept the one side of love, dont fall in love. ull be disappointed.
But if u felt that u were always miserable when u were in a relationship, then maybe ure fallin in love with the wrong person.

wad is loneliness? loneliness is when ur in a crowded space, and instead u feel that u are alone in this world . have u ever feel that this world is so big, and u just want to sink inside?

have u ever smile but u dont know wad ure smiling about? have u ever pretend that u are tough but inside u know that ure weak, and there’s nothing u can do to stop from showing ure weaknesses?

have u ever felt that there’s nothing in this world is matter to u? that everything happens around u is just an illusion, its not real, its not realy happening.

u dont know wad u think u know. and u dont know wads changing and wads not changing around you. u dont realy know someone,even if uve known them for a long time.

are we happy? are we unhappy? is that a real feeling? arent we able to determine wad we want to feel? if so, then we all can be happy all the time. just be part of this unrealistic, abstract world. wear that mask, and ull know how to achieve the unrealistic happiness.

if only there is time to be alone, somewhere.

ohisashiburiiiii…
its been a long time since d last time i posted this blog. its 3 am in d mornin, and i still cant sleep
so i went ol and decided to update this thing.
so, there’s nothin in particular to write here….
so, see ya, bye bye, ja ne..
……………………………………
okay, not wanting to disappoint all my fans out there, ill write sumtin here (plizzzz de yaaannnn)
do u guys want to see my dogs? ill consider it as a yes. i hv 4 dogs, and this is one of them

name : tammie
gender: female
i dont remember how old is she, but she’s cute riteeeeee??? kekekekek
(penting ga sih nih blog??)

anyway, i love dogs, i think dogs are the cutest living creature ever
like ppl says, i believe that, a person that doesn’t like dogs cannot be trusted.
look at my doggggg!!! (teuteuupppp)

there, i wrote sumting here already
im abit sleepy now, so im going soon.
ta ta

ko-hii

is kepo good or not? some ppl say its harmless, but is it really harmless to be kepo?
learn that everybody need some privacy, and learn that even with ur closest ppl
u cannot be kepo. sometimes it makes them feel uncomfortable.
respect each other , ppl!!
and im not saying that being kepo is absolutely prohibited or sumting,
sumtimes we even need to be kepo.
but please do consider about the person’s personality and mood. and put urself in their shoes.
would u like to be kepo-ed by them if ure in their situation? if not, then dont.
if yes, think again! still better not!

ko-hii

hi hi,
today i am so happy, bcos i finally meet kobu chan after almost a week.so today we spent our day together, and atashi wa hontoni ureshii!! :D:D
ima wa chotto tsukareta, nemui da yo. netekuru yo. im goin to sleep soon.
ja ne

today i went to micke’s baptism ceremony. its a very long long ceremony. i mean its 3 hours man. -____-’
but im really glad i could be there and witnessed my best friend’s baptism. eventhough not everything went well today ( i dont feel very well today, due to many reasons ) but i manage to drive myself home tonight. i raelly shoud re- think about one particular thing in my life rite now.
i really miss my kobu T____T
i really need him rite now, but he’s not here.im sure he will help me if he’s here. well at least not until tuesday. ganbaroo!!

friendster blog huh?pretty cool, finally they decide to make sumting like this.
and FinaLLY, they decide to create an album for us to put more pictures in it.
good.