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For all the guys out there,

I dedicate this blog for u who dont or are trying to understand womens’ peculiar feelings and attitudes when they’re falling in love, or even perhaps when they aren’t in love with you.

My friend once asked me, "how do u know when a woman likes u back, only from a phone conversation?"

My answer is see if she’s interested about you, yourself. Not just merely asking ur questions back to you. She likes you when she wants to know general facts about you, ur life principals and ur goals in life, without you having to ask her about it first.

Becareful when she REPEATS questions (with obvious answers) she had asked before.It could be that she feels uncomfortable talking with u and did that in order to fill the awkward moments with a conversation, and i mean any conversation will do.

When womens’ attitudes change during relationship, and those changes are into bad demeanor, for example: she begins to treat u arbitraily, easily tempered for small problems (which previously wouldn’t be an issue), unwillingly chat with you and always looking for excuses to end ur conversation over the phone, underestimates ur decisions, problems and opinions and not afraid of showing it. She will only behaving like that for one reason, there is other man.

Well perhaps 95% possibilities for there is other man (not necessarily dating other man, but at least she has feelings for other man), 5% for other reasons, i daresay.

Not every woman, of course, showing these kinds of symptoms when they’re seeing another man, there are certain women capable to conceal it. But take it from me, when it occurs in ur relationship there will be only one explanation for that (despite the fact that she denies it).

When a woman ask a man "do u like me?" it means that she likes him, and hoping that he liked her too. A friend of mine been asked this question, but the girl didn’t want them to be in a relationship. He was completely befuddled by the situation. What does she mean? what would she ask that question for if she doesnt want to be in a relationship?

A woman would only ask that bcos she likes him, but at that time she still has doubts about certain matters, and just not quite sure whether he’s the one for her. But she likes him for sure.

When a woman rejects your dating invitations over and over again for some ridiculous excuses that is the time when u should stop asking her out, you shouldn’t think that one day she would be softened and change her mind and actually go out with you, sometimes women do but most of the times we dont.

I couldn’t think of anymore problems, but feel free to ask me anything about womens’ strange behaviour =p ill try my best to answer it.

ko-hii