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Many ppl said (well actually this was my theory) that once we were in a relationship we will get through one phase that i would call "honeymoon period" It is a phase where a couple couldnt keep their hands off each other

, they couldnt help theirselves from seeing each other (they’ll feel like dying when their apart)

They’ll miss each other so very much even when they’ve just met like an hour ago. U guys know wad i mean?

everything in this world is very beautiful at this phase, there will be no harsh argument (we will say wad we want nicely to our partner),

there will be no resentment, (even when ur partner actually did sumthing that bother you.)

At this phase ppl can usually talk about the things bothering them sweetly to their partner, and their partner will respect it and apologize for their mistake.Everything went very well, and we felt that we’re such a perfect couple!!

okay, so now u guys understand wad i actually mean.

But take a good look at them (or ourselves?) 6 months afterwards, after the "honeymoon period" is over. Small stuffs could suddenly grow into bigger problems, that can trigger a huge fight, and by the time the fight is over we could’nt even remember the bone of the contention!! yes i know! its ridiculous and pathetic. but admit it, sumtimes we just cant avoid these kind of situation. we’ll get mad if our partner forgot to call us one day,

we’ll get uncontrollably jealous when our partner is caught talking to their opposite sex

we’ll be furious if our partner didnt answer our phone calls, after we had tried calling him 20 times! (please do remember, instead of being angry and furious, we’ll be worried about our partner when we’re still in "honeymoon period")

When these kind of situation occured, we would find ourselves thinking, "i wish he/she will stay the same person as before, when we were still in that honeymoon period (or maybe before we started dating)"

But we must all accept that everybody’s changing, ur loved one too. After all we are all just human.

People’s heart (feeling,red.) is changing too, whether we realized it or not. Love can grow bigger, or it can sink into nothing as the time goes by.

im not saying that it is absolutely impossible to make all the romances stay or to create a healthy relationship after the honeymoon period is over. But then it would lead us to my next blog. I’ll write it sum other time nettekuru yooo, nemui desu >.<