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True, faithfullness is a basic foundation of one healthy relationship.
True, the other basic of healthy relationship is communication.
But imagine a relationship with a great communication yet without faithfullness.
Your partner will communicate about his unfaithfullness that he/she conduct over and over again to you,
will it be healthy?

Wad if we’ve made a mistake, and cheated on our partner once?
should we tell her/him?
let me ask u sumtin, will telling him/her will make ur relationship better?
let me ask u another question, will regretting ur mistake and not doing it again make ur relationship better?
so should we tell him/her? dat depends on ur answer to those 2 questions above.

IF your bf is cheating on you, would you prefer knowing it or not?
U might say " of coz i’d prefer knowing it!! " but sumtimes not knowing is bliss.
U wont get hurt if u dont know the hurtfull truth.
I DO NOT believe in white lies, but the situation of not knowing is different.
dont get me wrong, i appreciate honesty. But honesty is for every other situation but that.
Am i stupid? perhaps i am, but who aren’t?

Can u forgive someone who is being unfaithfull to u?
Can u still be with sumone whom u KNOW is already cheating on u?
My answer for both Question is NO.

But can u still love sumone whom u KNOW is already cheating on u?
sadly, the answer is YES.
Would’nt it be more hurtfull if u love sumone that u KNOW is being unfaithfull?
u can’t just stop the love u feel for him/her right at that moment. And thats why its hurt.

So, like i said, SUMTIMES not knowing is bliss (i quote this from sumone, u know who u are)
But not just that, dont just be unfaithfull and not telling ur partner.
But for you and ur partner’s sake, regret ur mistake and never do it again. dats great.
But its even better if u were never be unfaithfull at the first place.

For myself, faithfullness is everything

ko-hii

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